Pivot Then Live It: The Blog

  • You’re Not Owed ANYTHING… But You Can Earn EVERYTHING!

    You’re Not Owed ANYTHING… But You Can Earn EVERYTHING!

    Let’s be real…t’s easy to fall into the trap of entitlement. If we’re honest with ourselves, there’s probably been more than one occasion where we felt like we were “owed” something that we really weren’t. Social media often showcases the glitz and glamor of success without highlighting the hard work and perseverance behind it. This, it’s easy to fall victim to the “fight can have it I should too” mentality (AKA dipsh*t syndrome). But here’s a truth bomb: you’re not owed ANYTHING. However, the beauty of life lies in the fact that you can earn EVERYTHING.

    Here are 7 foundational pillars that I’ve observed in every successful person (entrepreneur, athlete, military leader, patriarch, and matriarch) I’ve researched over the past two and a half years. These people understand (understood) that the world doesn’t owe them anything and everything they want can be theirs… if they’re willing to bust their @$$ to obtain it!

    1. Embrace the Grind

    Success is not handed out like candy on Halloween…nor should it be! It’s earned through blood, sweat, and tears. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur, a dedicated teacher, or someone striving for personal growth, your journey begins with hard work. Embrace the grind. Every challenge you face is an opportunity to grow stronger and wiser. The road to success is paved with effort, dedication, and relentless pursuit of your goals.

    1. Develop a Growth Mindset

    A key aspect of earning everything is cultivating a growth mindset. Instead of viewing challenges as insurmountable obstacles, see them as chances to learn and grow. When you stumble, don’t stay down. Learn from your mistakes, adapt, and move forward with renewed vigor. Remember, failures are not the end—they are stepping stones to your success.

    1. Take Ownership

    One of the most empowering things you can do is take ownership of your life. This means accepting responsibility for your actions and their outcomes. It’s easy to blame external factors for your lack of progress, but true growth comes from within. When you take control and hold yourself accountable, you unlock the power to change your circumstances and steer your life in the direction you desire.

    1. Invest in Yourself

    Your greatest asset is you. Invest in your personal development by acquiring new skills, seeking knowledge, and nurturing your passions. Whether it’s through formal education, online courses, or self-study, continually expanding your skill set opens doors to new opportunities. The more you know and the more proficient you become, the more valuable you are in any endeavor you undertake.

    1. Persistence Pays Off

    The journey to earning everything you desire is not a sprint; it’s a marathon. Persistence is your best friend. There will be times when the going gets tough, and giving up seems tempting. Resist the urge to quit. Keep pushing forward, even when progress seems slow. Success is often just around the corner for those who persist. Remember, persistence pays off.

    1. Build Strong Relationships

    No one achieves success alone. Surround yourself with positive, like-minded individuals who uplift and support you. Build strong relationships and a robust network. Collaborate, share knowledge, and offer help. The synergy created by a supportive community can propel you further than you could ever go alone.

    1. Stay True to Your Values

    In the pursuit of success, never compromise your values. Integrity, honesty, and a strong moral compass are non-negotiable. Success earned through unethical means is fleeting and hollow. Stay true to yourself and your principles, and you’ll not only achieve success but also respect and admiration from those around you.

    Wisdom From The Word

    A great piece of scripture that emphasizes the idea of implementing hard work to get what you want is Proverbs 13:4:

    “A sluggard’s appetite is never filled, but the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied.”

    This verse underscores the value of diligence and hard work, suggesting that those who put in the effort will see their desires fulfilled, while those who are lazy will not find satisfaction. God hammers home that through hard work, one can earn and achieve everything they desire.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    While life doesn’t owe us anything, the potential to earn everything is within our grasp. By embracing hard work, cultivating a growth mindset, taking ownership, investing in ourself, persisting through challenges, building strong relationships, and staying true to our values, we can achieve any goal we set our mind to. Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination. So, get out there, work hard, and earn the life you dream of.

    You’ve got this!

    #PersonalDevelopment #EntrepreneurMindset #GrowthMindset #HardWorkPaysOff #EarnYourSuccess #StayPersistent

    Feel free to share this post with your friends and family, and let’s encourage each other to strive for greatness. You can earn everything you desire—just go for it!

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  • Continue To Learn As You Climb

    Continue To Learn As You Climb

    For the past week, Courtney and I have had a blessed time visiting friends in Amboy, Illinois. If you’ve never been to Amboy, it’s a charming, small town that welcomes you with open arms and friendly smiles. While strolling through downtown Amboy, we noticed a poster that read, “Free Pancake Breakfast!” hosted by the Amboy Fire Department. Naturally, we decided to check it out.

    The firehouse was bustling with activity—families, kids, and locals all gathered for a good cause. We made a donation, grabbed our plates, and I proceeded to load up with pancakes, sausage, biscuits, gravy, and scrambled eggs. As we sat down to enjoy our breakfast and chat with our friends, a sign on the wall directly across from the lockers of fire suits caught my eye. It read, “Climb the mountain so you can see the world, not so the world can see you!”

    That phrase struck me profoundly. It made me reflect on the deeper purpose behind our pursuits and ambitions. In today’s world, it’s so easy to get caught up in the desire for recognition, approval, and the constant validation from others. Social media and societal pressures often push us to climb mountains just so we can shout from the peak, “Look at me!” But what if the real value of the climb isn’t in being seen but in seeing?

    In my own journey of losing over 200 pounds, changing my lifestyle, and attempting to build businesses like Student Like A Boss and Homeroom Swag, I’ve realized that the true reward isn’t in the accolades or the acknowledgment from others. It’s in the personal growth, the expanded perspective, and the profound sense of accomplishment that comes from within. Every step, every struggle, every triumph has shaped me into who I am today. And that’s a view of the world that no amount of external validation can replace.

    The fire department’s sign reminded me of this essential truth. As I sat there, surrounded by the dedicated firefighters, supportive community, and my loved ones, it was clear that the most impactful journeys we take are those that enrich our own understanding and experience of the world.

    Bottom line Y’all…

    So, as you set out to achieve your goals, remember this: Climb your mountains not for the applause or the spotlight but for the breathtaking views that only you can see. Let your journey be about personal growth, deeper understanding, and the satisfaction of knowing you’ve conquered something for yourself.

    Amboy’s small-town spirit, the camaraderie at the firehouse, and that simple yet profound sign will stay with me as a reminder to always aim for the peaks that offer true, unfiltered views of the world. And may you, too, find your mountains worth climbing, for all the right reasons.

    PersonalGrowth #JourneyNotDestination #StayHumble #KeepClimbing
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  • Transform Your Relationship with Food: A Guide to Healthy Restaurant Eating

    Transform Your Relationship with Food: A Guide to Healthy Restaurant Eating

    Ever get tired of feeling like you’re missing out when you’re out on the town at a restaurant, but you’re on a diet? Boy I did! It took a while, but after years of training and research, I’ve discovered how to overcome that battle. Or at least get started in the right direction of training our mind what it means to have a healthy diet.

    It’s time to shift our perspective. Stop thinking of food as something “they” get to enjoy while we diet. Instead, think of food as a fuel source we control, and one “they” can’t. In other words, “they” are eating what they desire, which will hurt them in the long run simply because they couldn’t control their impulses. Our diet is a lot like our finances. Just like we have to control our money, or our money will control us, we have to control our eating… or our eating will control us. Remember…I started my health and wellness journey at 450 pounds! So it’s safe to say… I’m familiar with food controlling me!

    Make Smart Choices When Dining Out

    When you go out to eat at a restaurant (eating at home), don’t get anxious or upset because your mind is making you crave the chip and dip appetizer and the medium all-meat pizza. Instead, lean into the truth that you’re going to be fueling your body with healthier options.

    Opt for something like corn tortillas and black beans as the evening’s appetizer (or afternoon snack). For your main course, choose something in the neighborhood of a salad with grilled chicken or salmon and vinaigrette dressing. This way, you’re upping your protein without all the calories. Finally, hydrate your body with a few glasses of water (or tea) instead of loading it full of sugary sodas or high-calorie beer or mixed drinks.

    Once done with your meal, you’ll feel full, satisfied, and have peace of mind knowing that you’ve eaten a sensible meal that will return dividends when it comes to your personal health. Meanwhile, your buddy across the table, who gorged on a basket of wings for his appetizer and had a hamburger with a large side of fries and two mugs of beer, is trying to decide if he should loosen his belt a notch now… or wait until he’s in the parking lot as to avoid drawing attention to himself.

    The Mind-Body Connection

    Eventually, our mind will catch up to our body and better understand what it means to live a healthy lifestyle, especially regarding eating healthy. Over time, as we consistently make healthier choices, our mind will begin to align with our body’s needs and understand the benefits of a healthy lifestyle. This mental shift is crucial because it reinforces our commitment to making nutritious choices and helps us resist unhealthy temptations. Our cravings will gradually change, and we’ll start to genuinely enjoy and prefer foods that fuel your body properly.

    Tips for Healthy Eating Out

    1. Plan Ahead: Before dining out, check the restaurant’s menu online and choose healthy options ahead of time.
    2. Portion Control: Share appetizers or order smaller portions to avoid overeating.
    3. Stay Hydrated: Drink water before and during your meal to help control hunger and avoid overeating.
    4. Focus on Protein: Choose meals high in protein, like grilled chicken or fish, to stay full longer.
    5. Mindful Eating: Pay attention to what you’re eating and savor each bite. This helps you enjoy your meal and recognize when you’re full.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Transforming your relationship with food and making healthier choices is a journey. By viewing food as a fuel source and making conscious decisions, you can enjoy your meals without guilt and improve your overall health. Remember, it’s not about deprivation but about nourishing your body and mind. With time, your mind will align with your body’s healthy habits, making it easier to maintain a nutritious diet. Start today by making small changes, and watch how they add up to significant improvements in your health and well-being.

    For more tips on healthy eating, fitness, and personal development, stay tuned to our blog. Together, we can achieve a healthier, happier lifestyle.

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  • Never Stop Learning: Life Never Stops Teaching

    Never Stop Learning: Life Never Stops Teaching

    I’ve made it a mission to learn at least one new thing every day. Whether it’s something as simple as a new word and its definition, or a healthy recipe, or something more intricate like a fresh new graphic design skill, I firmly believe that lifelong learning is key to personal and professional growth. The world around us is a constant teacher, offering lessons both intentional and unintentional.

    The Power of Lifelong Learning

    Lifelong learning is an essential part of personal development. It’s about continually expanding your knowledge and skills, no matter your age or stage in life. Embracing new challenges keeps our minds sharp, our spirits invigorated, and our perspectives broad.

    For me, the daily pursuit of knowledge isn’t just a habit—it’s a way of life. Each day brings new opportunities to learn, whether through a deliberate effort or an unexpected experience. This mindset has enriched my life in countless ways, both big and small.

    Intentional Learning: A Daily Practice

    Intentional learning is a proactive approach to gaining knowledge. Lets use my examples above to highlight this concept:

    1. Expanding Vocabulary: Learning a new word enhances my communication skills and keeps my mind active.
    2. Exploring New Recipes: As a health enthusiast, discovering nutritious recipes adds variety to my diet and keeps me excited about healthy eating.
    3. Mastering Graphic Design: Enhancing my graphic design skills not only fuels my creativity but also benefits my entrepreneurial endeavors.

    Life’s Unintentional Lessons

    Sometimes, life teaches us lessons in unexpected ways. These unintentional lessons can be just as valuable as those we seek out. A recent experience with my business, Homeroom Swag, highlighted this perfectly.

    The other day, I received a poor review for one of our bulletin board sets. A customer had purchased a “Ukrainian Flag Colored Bulletin Board Set” and was disappointed because she expected the letters to be in the Ukrainian alphabet. Despite the product description clearly stating that the letters were in English (and our thumbnail pictures were obviously English letters and standard numbers), she left a one-star review.

    In the past, I would have died on a hill defending my position, insisting that the customer was wrong. However, life, through my growing circle of phenomenal mentors (who have extensive customer service and business experience), has taught me a valuable lesson about customer satisfaction.

    Instead of arguing, I acknowledged her frustration. I expressed regret that she couldn’t create the learning environment she envisioned with our product. I apologized sincerely and refunded her purchase immediately. Though she never responded to my message…she did remove her negative review.

    The Takeaway

    This experience underscored a vital lesson: pay attention to what life teaches you, and never stop learning from these lessons. Each day, whether through deliberate learning or unplanned events, we have the opportunity to grow and improve.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    We should never stop learning because life never stops teaching. Whether it’s through something as simple as expanding our vocabulary, learning from previous mistakes, or surrounding ourselves with men and women who have “been there-done that”, make learning a daily habit. Embrace the lessons life throws our way, and use them to become the best version of ourself.

    By staying open to learning and adapting to new challenges, we’ll not only enhance our personal development but also enrich our professional life and relationships. Remember, every day is a new opportunity to learn something valuable. So, stay curious, stay humble, and never stop growing.

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  • Online Learning: Not Just For Viruses Anymore

    Online Learning: Not Just For Viruses Anymore

    Let’s be real for a minute, we live in a technology-driven world. And in this new tech-centered society, online learning has emerged as a revolutionary force in education. No longer just a tool to use in a lockdown (Ugh! Don’t get me started y’all) or a supplemental resource for brick-and-mortar classrooms, online learning is now a comprehensive, standalone educational approach. From K-12 and college-age students to adults seeking career advancement, online education offers limitless opportunities for personal and professional growth. It’s time for educators to acquire the skills necessary to create effective online curricula and deliver engaging lessons to students worldwide.

    Online Learning Can Be Life-Changing

    Online learning has the potential to be a life-changing tool for millions of students, breaking down geographical barriers and offering flexible learning opportunities. If you think of it in those terms, we are at a point in time where we (teachers/educators) can have an AMAZING IMPACT on students from all walks of life…and isn’t that why we got into education in the first place? I believe, going forward, online learning will transform lives because of its:

    1. Accessibility: Students from remote areas or underprivileged backgrounds can access quality education without relocating.
    2. Flexibility: Learners can study at their own pace and schedule, which is particularly beneficial for those balancing education with work or family commitments.
    3. Diverse Learning Resources: Online platforms offer a wide variety of courses and learning materials, allowing students to explore subjects they are passionate about or need for career advancement.
    4. Skill Development: From digital literacy to specialized professional skills, online learning equips students with the tools needed for the modern job market.
    5. Personalized Learning: Adaptive learning technologies can tailor educational experiences to individual student needs, improving engagement and retention.

    Out With The old Way Of Thinking About Online Learning

    It’s time to stop thinking of online learning in terms of a resource for brick-and-mortar classrooms…those days are gone and online learning has gone way beyond the simple idea of “a tool for learning”. Online learning should be seen as a total learning concept. A virtual place where students of all ages and all walks of life can acquire the knowledge the need to be fully functioning and productive members of society. Online learning should be embraced as a comprehensive educational approach because of its:

    1. Complete Curriculum Offerings: Online learning platforms now provide full curricula, enabling students to complete their entire educational journey online. From elementary education to advanced degrees and professional certifications, the scope is vast and diverse.
    2. Personalized Learning Paths: Online learning allows for highly personalized education, adapting to the pace and style of each learner. This can result in a more effective and engaging learning experience.
    3. Global Accessibility: Online education breaks down geographical barriers, offering students from all corners of the world access to the same high-quality education. This democratizes learning opportunities and promotes global inclusivity.
    4. Lifelong Learning: Online education supports continuous learning, allowing individuals to acquire new knowledge and skills throughout their lives. This is crucial in today’s ever-changing job market where lifelong learning is essential for career success.
    5. Flexibility and Convenience: Online learning provides unparalleled flexibility, enabling students to learn anytime and anywhere. This is particularly beneficial for working adults, parents, and those with other commitments.
    6. Innovative Teaching Methods: Online platforms can integrate multimedia tools, interactive content, and real-time feedback, making learning more dynamic and engaging compared to traditional methods.
    7. Cost-Effective Education: Often, online education is more affordable than traditional classroom learning, reducing the financial burden on students and making education more accessible.
    8. Scalability: Online learning can scale to accommodate a large number of students without the physical limitations of classrooms, making it easier to expand educational offerings.

    This Ain’t Your Grandchild’s Learning Method

    Online learning isn’t just for K-12 and college-age students. It can also benefit adults by offering opportunities for personal and professional growth. People from all areas of the world can learn new skills to advance their position within a company or they can pivot (my favorite word) completely and learn an entirely new career that will not only financially benefit them personally, but positively impact their family. Here are just a few ways online learning can benefit adults:

    1. Career Advancement: Adults can gain new skills and certifications to advance in their current careers or pivot to new fields. Online courses often offer industry-recognized credentials that enhance employability.
    2. Lifelong Learning: Learning doesn’t stop at graduation. Adults can continue to grow intellectually and professionally, staying up-to-date with industry trends and innovations.
    3. Convenience: Balancing work, family, and education can be challenging. Online learning provides the flexibility to study at times that fit their busy schedules.
    4. Cost-Effective: Online courses can be more affordable than traditional education, reducing financial barriers and making it easier for adults to invest in their education.
    5. A Multitude of Offerings: From coding bootcamps to business management courses, there is a vast array of subjects available online. Adults can explore new interests and passions, leading to more fulfilling career paths.
    6. Networking Opportunities: Many online courses offer forums and community groups where learners can connect with peers, industry experts, and mentors, expanding their professional networks.

    The Role of Educators in Online Learning

    For online learning to reach its full potential, educators must be equipped (and be willing to be equipped) with the skills to create and teach effective online curricula. Whiteboards (chalkboards for my perps), copy machines, and well thought out bulletin board displays won’t cut it online. We are moving from checkers to 3-D chess. We need to pivot our thinking. Our students aren’t coming to us…essentially we’re going to them. We have to figure out how to take the strategies behind the whiteboard, copy machines, and bulletin boards and offer them via a virtual setting. I didn’t say it would be easy…and I didn’t say it wouldn’t take some getting used to, but in the end, the benefit it will have for the students will be life changing. So, how can we educators equip ourselves for teaching online? Glad you asked. Going forward we need to focus on building our:

    1. Curriculum Development Skills: We need to learn how to design comprehensive online courses. This includes understanding the principles of instructional design, creating engaging multimedia content, and developing assessments that measure student learning effectively.
    2. Technical Proficiency: Familiarity with online learning platforms and tools is essential. We need to be comfortable using learning management systems (LMS), video conferencing software, and other digital tools that facilitate online teaching.
    3. Interactive Teaching Methods: Teaching online requires different strategies compared to traditional classrooms. We need to learn how to engage students through interactive lessons, discussions, and collaborative projects.
    4. Continuous Professional Development: The field of online education is continually evolving. To be honest, I don’t know if any other specialized field changes as much as education does from year to year. We need to commit to ongoing professional development to stay updated with the latest trends, tools, and best practices in online teaching.
    5. Global Teaching Skills: Teaching students from all corners of the world requires not only a strong understanding of various cultural backgrounds, but an understanding of different learning styles as well. We need to be prepared to adapt our teaching methods to meet the needs of a global audience.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Online learning has the potential to be a life-changing tool for millions of students, from K-12 to adults seeking new career opportunities. It’s time to stop thinking of online education as merely a supplement to traditional classrooms and start seeing it as a comprehensive educational approach. As educators , we play a crucial role in this transformation. By acquiring the skills to create and teach effective online curricula, we can empower students around the world to achieve their educational goals.

    Embracing online learning as a total learning concept not only enhances accessibility and flexibility but also fosters lifelong learning and global inclusivity. As we move forward, the integration of online education will undoubtedly continue to reshape the landscape of learning, providing diverse and innovative opportunities for students everywhere. As my grandad always said, “Don’t get caught watching the paint dry on the fence! Grab a paintbrush and get to work!” In other words…the future of education is going to be colorful…so grab a paintbrush and join in!

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  • What Are Your Non-Negotiables???

    What Are Your Non-Negotiables???

    The Importance of Identifying and Sticking to Your Non-Negotiables is crucial!

    The world is constantly pulling us in different directions. When that happens, having a clear set of non-negotiables can be a game-changer. Non-negotiables are the foundational principles or values that we hold so dear, they guide our every decision and action. They are the bedrock of our character and the compass that steers our life’s journey. I’d like to quickly cover why identifying our top 5 non-negotiables is crucial and how sticking to them can transform our life.

    Why Non-Negotiables Matter

    1. Clarity and Focus: Life is full of distractions and conflicting priorities. Having non-negotiables provides clarity and focus. They help us prioritize what truly matters and make decisions aligned with our core values.
    2. Consistency in Actions: When we have non-negotiables, our actions become consistent. We don’t sway with the changing winds of circumstance. This consistency builds trust and integrity, both with ourself and others. 
    3. Strength in Adversity: Life is unpredictable, and challenges are inevitable. Our non-negotiables serve as an anchor in tough times. They remind us of what’s important and provide the strength to persevere. 
    4. Guidance in Decision-Making: Non-negotiables act as a guiding light in the decision-making process. They help you evaluate options and choose paths that align with your values.
    5. Personal Fulfillment: Living in accordance with your non-negotiables leads to a more fulfilling life. It ensures that you are true to yourself and live a life of purpose and meaning. 

    Examples of Non-Negotiables

    To illustrate, here are my 5 Non-Negotiables and their impact from a first-person perspective:

    1. God First: For me, faith is the cornerstone of my existence. It shapes my worldview and provides a moral framework. My commitment to placing God at the center of my life influences my choices, priorities, and interactions with others.
    2. Family: Prioritizing my family means that decisions are made with the well-being of my loved ones in mind. This could mean turning down job offers that require excessive travel or making time for family activities despite a busy schedule.
    3. Continuous Personal Development: Valuing my health means adopting habits that promote physical and mental well-being. This includes regular exercise, a balanced diet, and stress management practices that I follow diligently.
    4. Serve Others: My commitment to serving others leads me to selfless actions and a focus on making a difference. It involves volunteer work, helping friends and neighbors, and even choosing a career path that allows me to have a positive impact on others.
    5. Practice Like You Play: Practicing excellence in all my endeavors, big or small, cultivates a habit of high performance. This non-negotiable ensures that I always strive to give my best, regardless of the task’s visibility or perceived importance.

    By embracing these non-negotiables, I find clarity, guidance, and fulfillment in my life, ensuring that my actions align with my core values and beliefs.

    Evolving Non-Negotiables

    It’s important to recognize that non-negotiables can evolve over time. As we grow and experience life, our priorities may shift. What’s crucial is to periodically reflect on these values and ensure they still resonate with who we are and what we want to achieve.

    For instance, a young professional might prioritize career growth initially but later shift their focus to family and health as they start a family. Similarly, life experiences might deepen one’s commitment to certain values, such as faith or service to others.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Identifying and sticking to our top 5 non-negotiables is a powerful way to lead a focused, consistent, and fulfilling life. They provide clarity, guide decisions, and offer strength in adversity. By living according to these core values, we can ensure that we are true to ourself and our life’s purpose. Reflect on our non-negotiables regularly, allowing them to evolve as we grow, and let them be the compass that guides us through life’s journey.

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  • Renew Our Mind…DAILY!

    Renew Our Mind…DAILY!

    In our journey as believers, we often grapple with the question of why sinful desires persist even after accepting Christ as our Savior. The answer lies in understanding the process of mind renewal as outlined in Scripture. Romans 12:2 provides profound insight into this transformation, urging us not to conform to the patterns of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. This biblical principle is essential to our overcoming sinful desires and aligning our lives with God’s will.

    Romans 12:2:

    “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”

    Recognizing Our Sinful Nature

    Every individual, no matter their background, struggles with some form of sin. Whether it’s anger, deceit, theft, gluttony, or sexual immorality, these desires stem from our inherent sinful nature. It’s easy to become frustrated and angry when we feel that God hasn’t removed these desires from our lives. However, the key lies not in expecting God to magically take away our sinful desires but in actively surrendering them to Him.

    The Process of Mind Renewal

    When we accept Christ as our Savior, we embark on a transformative journey of renewing our minds. This process involves consciously letting go of the things that lead us into sin. It requires a daily commitment to replace sinful thoughts and behaviors with godly ones. It’s about taking personal responsibility and choosing to surrender our sinful desires, trusting that God’s strength will help us overcome them.

    Romans 8:13:

    “For if you live by its dictates, you will die. But if through the power of the Spirit you put to death the deeds of your sinful nature, you will live.”

    Through the power of the Holy Spirit, we have the ability to resist sinful desires and choose righteousness. This is a cooperative process where we actively participate in our sanctification by surrendering our will to God’s will.

    Practical Steps to Renewing Your Mind

    1. Immerse Yourself in Scripture: Regular reading and meditation on God’s Word are crucial. The Bible is our guide to understanding God’s will and aligning our thoughts with His truth.
    2. Prayer and Surrender: Consistently pray for the Holy Spirit’s help in surrendering sinful desires. Ask God to reveal areas in our life that need change and trust Him to guide us through the process.
    3. Guard Your Thoughts:

    Philippians 4:8:

    “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.”

    By filling our minds with positive, godly thoughts, we guard our hearts and experience God’s peace.

    1. Community and Accountability: Surround yourself with fellow believers who can support and hold you accountable in your journey of mind renewal. Sharing struggles and victories with a trusted community can provide encouragement and strength.

    The Result of Renewing Your Mind

    Renewing our mind leads to a profound transformation that affects every aspect of our life—our speech, behavior, relationships, and overall worldview. When we fill our minds with Scripture and focus on godly thoughts, we are better equipped to navigate any situation with faith and trust in God.

    Guarding our minds is crucial for maintaining peace. The Bible assures us that when we fill our minds with good things (God things), the God of peace will be with us. By taking the first step towards God and allowing His Word to renew our minds, we experience a transformed life filled with His peace and presence.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Renewing our mind is a daily commitment that requires effort and dedication. By immersing ourselves in Scripture, prayer, and godly thoughts, we can overcome sinful desires and align our lives with God’s will. Remember, it’s not about God taking away our sinful desires; it’s about us actively surrendering them and trusting in His strength to overcome. Embrace the journey of mind renewal and experience the transformative power of God’s Word in our life.

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  • We Are Here For A Reason… And A Season!

    We Are Here For A Reason… And A Season!

    During my quiet time this morning, a profound thought struck me: “We are here for a reason… and a season!” This concept is not just a philosophical musing but a practical guide to living a purposeful and productive life. Each moment in our lives presents unique opportunities and challenges, and it’s crucial to recognize and act upon them before moving on to the next chapter… or before time runs out completely. I want to take a few minutes to explores the importance of understanding our purpose in the present moment, working hard, avoiding procrastination, and fulfilling that purpose before moving on… OR… before it’s too late.

    Understanding Your Purpose in the Present Moment

    Life is a series of seasons, each with its own set of tasks and purposes. Recognizing the reason behind each season helps us stay focused and motivated. Whether we’re a student, an entrepreneur, or a parent, every phase of our life offers distinct lessons and opportunities.

    The Importance of Hard Work

    Success doesn’t come from wishful thinking; it comes from putting in the hard work. Each day presents new opportunities to advance towards our goals. By dedicating time and effort to our tasks, we build momentum and progress steadily.

    The Dangers of Procrastination

    Procrastination is the thief of time and progress. It’s easy to put off tasks for later, but this often leads to missed opportunities and increased stress. By tackling tasks as they come, we can manage our workload more effectively and achieve better results.

    Strategies for Getting the Job Done

    1. Set Clear Goals: Define what you need to achieve in each season of your life. Having clear goals helps you stay focused and measure your progress.
    1. Prioritize Tasks: Identify which tasks are most important and tackle them first. This ensures that you address the most critical issues without getting bogged down by less important activities.
    2. Create a Schedule: Plan your day to allocate specific times for different tasks. A well-structured schedule helps you stay on track and manage your time efficiently.
    3. Eliminate Distractions: Identify and minimize sources of distraction. Whether it’s turning off notifications or creating a dedicated workspace, reducing distractions helps you stay focused.
    4. Take Breaks: Regular breaks are essential for maintaining productivity and avoiding burnout. Schedule short breaks to recharge and return to tasks with renewed energy.

    The Power of Perseverance

    Perseverance is the ability to keep pushing forward despite challenges. It’s the commitment to continue working hard and staying focused on our goals, even when faced with obstacles. Remember, every season has its storms, but perseverance ensures we emerge stronger and more accomplished.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Embracing the philosophy that “we are here for a reason… and a season” encourages us to make the most of each moment. By understanding our purpose, working hard, avoiding procrastination, and persevering through challenges, we can achieve our goals and move forward confidently into the next chapter of our lives.

    Perhaps a better way to say it is, “We are ONLY here for a reason… and a season!”

    Remember, each season in life is fleeting, but the efforts we put in and the lessons we learn remain with us forever. So, seize the moment, work diligently, and get the job done!

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  • What We Do in Private Will Define Who We Are in Public: A Guide to Personal Integrity and Authenticity

    What We Do in Private Will Define Who We Are in Public: A Guide to Personal Integrity and Authenticity

    We live in a time when public personas often overshadow private lives. But it’s crucial to understand that what we do in private shapes who we are in public. This principle, grounded in timeless wisdom, underscores the importance of integrity, consistency, and authenticity in every aspect of our lives. Whether we’re a student, an entrepreneur, a health enthusiast, or a follower of Christ, embracing this truth can transform our journey toward personal development and success.

    The Importance of Personal Integrity

    Integrity is the cornerstone of a meaningful and successful life. It’s about being honest and having strong moral principles (our “moral compass”), even when no one is watching. Personal integrity builds trust, fosters respect, and creates a solid foundation for any endeavor. How do we cultivate integrity???

    1. Consistency in Character: Our private actions reflect our true character. When we consistently make ethical choices in private, we naturally project honesty and reliability in public. This consistency is vital for building long-lasting relationships, whether in business, family, or social circles.
    2. Trust and Respect: Trust is earned over time through consistent behavior. When people see that our public actions align with our private life, they are more likely to trust and respect us. This trust is invaluable, particularly in leadership roles, where our influence can inspire and motivate others.
    3. Inner Peace and Confidence: Living with integrity brings a sense of inner peace and confidence. When our actions align with our values, we eliminate internal conflicts and doubts. This harmony allows us to face challenges with a clear mind and a strong sense of purpose.

    Authenticity in a Superficial World

    In case you didn’t know (eye rolling sarcasm),  we live in a digital age where social media often promotes superficiality. In a superficial digital world, authenticity stands out as a powerful and attractive trait. Authenticity is about being genuine, true to yourself, and transparent in your actions and communications. How do we cultivate authenticity???

    1. Building Authentic Relationships: Authenticity fosters genuine connections. When we’re true to ourself, we attract like-minded individuals who appreciate us for who we are. These authentic relationships are more meaningful and enduring compared to connections based on pretense or superficiality.
    2. Enhancing Personal and Professional Growth: Authenticity allows for continuous personal and professional growth. When we’re honest about our strengths and weaknesses, we’re more open to feedback and learning opportunities. This openness propels us toward self-improvement and greater achievements.
    3. Creating a Positive Influence: Authenticity inspires others. By being true to ourself, we encourage others to do the same. This positive influence can create a ripple effect, promoting a culture of honesty and integrity within our community or organization.

    Practical Steps to Align Private and Public Lives

    1. Reflect on Our Values: Take time to identify and reflect on our core values. These values should guide our actions, both in private and public. Regularly revisiting our values helps ensure that your behavior remains aligned with them.
    2. Set Personal Goals: Establish personal goals that reflect our values and aspirations. These goals provide direction and motivation, helping us stay focused on what’s important and true to ourself.
    3. Practice Self-Discipline: Self-discipline is crucial for maintaining integrity and authenticity. Make conscious choices that reflect our values, even when faced with temptations or challenges. Over time, self-discipline becomes a habit that reinforces our character.
    4. Seek Accountability: Find a trusted mentor, friend, or community that holds us accountable to our values and goals. Accountability partners provide support, encouragement, and honest feedback, helping us stay true to ourself. 
    5. Embrace Transparency: Be open and transparent in our actions and communications. Transparency builds trust and reinforces our commitment to integrity and authenticity. It also helps us address and learn from mistakes, fostering continuous growth.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    What we do in private will define who we are in public. This timeless truth emphasizes the importance of living with integrity and authenticity. By aligning our private actions with our public personas, we build trust, foster meaningful relationships, and create a positive impact in our communities. Let’s embrace this principle in our journey toward personal excellence and success, and watch as it transforms not only our life but also the lives of those around us.

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  • Pride Goeth Before The Fall

    Pride Goeth Before The Fall

    It’s a Biblical standard that has withstood the test of time, Pride Goeth Before The Fall (Proverbs 16:18-19)

    Pride has the potential to bring down individuals, small groups, and massive organizations alike. It’s a silent yet powerful force that can corrupt intentions, foster division, and ultimately lead to the downfall of even the most promising endeavors. As we strive for personal growth and harmonious communities, it is imperative that we recognize the detrimental effects of pride and actively work towards overcoming it. Here are four essential steps to defeat pride and establish lasting peace.

    1. Identify the Value in Others

    One of the first steps in overcoming pride is to recognize and appreciate the inherent value in others. It’s crucial to ensure that we do not place our worth above theirs. Pride often stems from an inflated sense of self-importance, which blinds us to the strengths and contributions of those around us. By acknowledging the unique gifts and talents that others bring to the table, we foster a sense of mutual respect and cooperation. This mindset shift is vital for building strong, collaborative relationships in personal, professional, and community settings.

    2. Be Open and Honest

    Transparency is a powerful antidote to pride. Hidden motives and agendas breed mistrust and conflict. When we are open and honest about our intentions, we create an environment of trust and integrity. Transparency requires us to be vulnerable, to admit our mistakes, and to communicate our goals and desires clearly. This openness paves the way for genuine connections and understanding, making it easier to resolve conflicts and work together towards common goals.

    3. Keep the Lines of Communication Open

    Effective communication is key to overcoming pride and maintaining peace. It’s essential to talk out our differences and address issues as they arise. Open lines of communication allow for the exchange of ideas, the airing of grievances, and the resolution of misunderstandings. By actively listening to others and expressing ourselves respectfully, we can prevent prideful attitudes from taking root and ensure that everyone feels heard and valued.

    4. Seek God’s Guidance

    In our journey to defeat pride, seeking God’s guidance is indispensable. As humans, we are often prone to letting pride creep into our lives, even when we have the best intentions. By asking God to help us overcome our prideful tendencies and remove us from situations where pride might arise, we can stay grounded and focused on what truly matters. Prayer and reflection help us to align our actions with God’s will, fostering humility and a spirit of service.

    Take Action

    Take a moment today to reflect on areas in your life where pride might be holding you back. How can you better recognize the value in others? Are there ways you can be more transparent in your interactions? What steps can you take to improve communication in your relationships? Seek God’s guidance in your journey towards humility and peace, and watch as your life transforms for the better.

    Bottom Line Y’all…

    Moving beyond pride is not an easy task, but it is essential for personal development and the establishment of peace in our relationships and communities. By identifying the value in others, being transparent, keeping the lines of communication open, and seeking God’s guidance, we can overcome the destructive force of pride. Let’s commit to these 4 easy steps and strive to create a world where humility, respect, and peace prevail.

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